My daughter had no will, but I had to go to Korea to have double eyelid surgery.
Instead of telling me that I should have it done because my eyes are small, I made them understand that I needed to get it done before my eyesight worsens because my eyelids cover the pupil... But I was so
 scared... It was an eye that needed an incision and it was recommended to have fat removed, and I would probably need ptosis as well, but I was afraid it would go wrong...ㅜ
 Then I will be ruining my daughter with my own hands.. She
 
is now 170cm and 85kg (heavy bone). When she was young, her bones were not that thick and she was pretty in an Asian way, but after she started her period, she changed drastically.. I started to
 see that she was less and less confident in her appearance.. Her personality became more passive and she became more and more friendly with
 her friends. I pathologically hate having my picture taken, and even on video calls with my grandmother, I cover my face.
Her friends are dressed up in crop tops, but my daughter always wears black clothes like the Grim Reaper and her dad's clothes. I
 
want to get double eyelids to help her gain a little confidence.
 Am I just obsessed with aesthetics?
What do you think of the rituals you did at this age now??
My daughter is a quiet and kind-hearted gom-sun, so she has no interest in things like this. I wish she had eyes like this. She doesn't look for a single picture, so I'm frustrated, so I'm leaving a post.
 *I am attaching a photo of my daughter, and I would really like to hear from people with similar eyes who share their surgery experiences and reviews. (I desperately need it)