(Just chatting on the 4th month of rhinoplasty) It's been about 4 months since I had rhinoplasty, and up until the 3rd month, I was really stressed because of the swelling and awkward facial expressions... I was wondering why I had plastic surgery on my normal face... In addition, I had a lot of sex therapists come to me after plastic surgery because of the redness of my nose and the appearance of my breasts. ㅠㅠ But now, I'm getting used to my face and people around me have been telling me that my nose looks pretty, so I'm satisfied! I'm still scared of the contracture side effects... I worry a lot every time I drink alcohol.
A man who has a crush on me (I don't have a crush on him at all, but there are a lot of people I'm tied to, so I can't cut him off like a knife and try to be like an older brother or younger brother haha) said that he felt pressured because I had gotten prettier after surgery... and asked me if I was dressing boldly anymore. .. (I'm someone who used to dress boldly in the summer.) After the surgery, I changed.. They've been mentioning the surgery for 3 months like this and telling me I've changed. It's so stressful. LOL
(I just tried this. It's true, but even before the surgery, I was told a lot that I was pretty, which boosted my self-esteem, and even after the surgery, I didn't do anything like posting selfies and my self-esteem stayed the same ㅠㅠ)
Anyway , are there any people who hear things like this after the surgery? I guess it's because the surgery went well~ I'm trying to ignore it, but it's so annoying lol ㅠㅠㅠ
ㅅㅂ ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 나는 같은 동성들이 그러는 거 경험해봤는데, 참 진짜 할짓 없는 정신병자들인가 싶더라. 그냥 그런갑다 하고 넘기지 않고, 계속 끈질기게 질척대면서 내 자존감 깎아내루려 하고 오만 열등감 표출하고 난리도 아님.... 남자들끼리도 그런다. 근데 또 자기들이 외모지적 당하면 분노하고 물건 집어던지고 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 다 자기가 부족한 걸 표출하는 거야. 생각해봐라. 정말 자기가 만족하는 사람들 중에 남 외모 지적하고 질척 대는 사람 없잖아. 그냥 인격이 낮은 사람들임