I had double eyelids because it was so uncomfortable to open my eyes because of the frown lines (they were buried) . But did you get the surgery because your eyes were small and narrow like coin slots? Did you cut your eyes because you were angry at having suffered a lot of racial discrimination until now? Even so, your Asian(?) will disappear. I heard things like , “Are you trying to destroy your heritage ?”, “Stop making excuses that don’t make sense,” “I know you’re trying to avoid Asian things,” and “Love yourself” . .and he was Korean.. I cried a lot when I heard what was really happening..lol..later on, he treated me like I was a sensitive person and got angry and told me to go to a psychiatrist..it wasn't really the main thing, it just happened today..haㅜ I'm just posting this because I'm so angry..
+ +We both lived abroad for a long time, and when we talked about race, I said it was racism. Don’t get me wrong.
유학인거야 쭉산거야? 한인회 너무 발들이지마 질나쁜사람 많으니까. 그리고 단순하고 흔한 말이지만 뭐 눈에 뭐만 보인다는게 진리야. 걔가 사대주의적 사고를 가지고 동양인은 열등하다는 피해의식에 절어있는애라 그렇게 생각하는 것 뿐 니가 이상한게 아냐 ㅋㅋ 그냥 웃음만 나오네 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 저런애들은 글쓴이 너같이 마음여린애들을 귀신같이 알고 저런말해. 그냥 불편한 얘기하면 단호하게 끊어버리던지, 아니면 아무말없이 자리를 떠도 좋아. 울면 더 쟤네들 먹잇감만 되니 꾹 참고 차라리 집에와서 울어. 나도 당해봐서 그 심정 잘안다.. 절대 지지마 화이팅!
[@Hastobegood] 걱정되서 더 덧붙일게! 나도 조금만 언성높아지면 별로 안슬픈데도 눈물부터나는 눈물쟁이었어서 팁을 주자면, 때로는 침묵이 제일 강한 공격이자 방어일수도 있어. 단 절대 웃으면 안되고, 상대의 눈을 진짜 무생물을 본다는 느낌으로 뚫어지게 쳐다보면서 5초이상은 침묵해줘. 그리고 자리 뜰때도 눈 피하지 말고. 말주변이없거나 말다툼 시작하면 눈물부터 나는 사람들은 이게 최고임