I am writing down my personal thoughts while experiencing a long illness, including concerns about failed surgery, reoperation, restoration, and post-surgical side effects.
If you look at popular, pretty celebrities,
they may look like they've had a bit of plastic surgery, but they're naturally pretty, right?
On the contrary, I have seen a lot of people being treated as uncanny valley sex monsters and
celebrities being treated like novices if they have too much plastic surgery.
In the same context, I think it is better for ordinary people like us to pursue “beauty that is not excessive, natural, and harmonious.” We
all know this, but we know we need to be careful. Let me summarize it first.
1. Eyes
- Double eyelid line too
high
)
- Moderate slit at the front and back (be careful not to expose the crooked opening of the front slit, U-shaped deformation of the back slit, or damage the gray line)
- There cannot be perfect symmetry. Accept it if it is appropriate (celebrities and idols also have asymmetrical eyes, but they are pretty)
2. Nose
- Appropriately raise the tip of the nose
- Moderately round (too pointed)
- Consider safety more important than the pursuit of “glamour/self-esteem” that is popular these days
- A nose that matches my facial structure/features
- Do not challenge physical limitations (skin thickness, etc.)
- Unless your face is 100% symmetrical, it is better to tolerate a little asymmetry if you have facial asymmetry
- Reoperation only for aesthetic improvement unless contractures/side effects occur Absolutely don't do it multiple times
- if you put silicone all the way to the tip of your nose, the tip of your nose will pierce later due to gravity. Be careful
3. Contour
- Shave the cheekbones appropriately
- Unconditionally pursue the
“ doll line” that is popular these days
Ask for a certain amount of space left
- If the length of the chin is reduced too much, the chin will become short and look hollow.
-Do not get too close to the nerve line
4. Filler/fat grafting
-Get a filler
that can be dissolved ( permanent filler
I think one of them is facial fat transplantation (forehead bump).
-I think filler is not fixed but moves within the body, so
I think we need to be careful when putting filler into the body (pelvis, shoulders, buttocks) rather than the face (this is a subjective opinion. I don't know the objective safety)
5. Breasts
I'm not sure because I've never had breasts done, but
I It's poor, but I'll just live without surgery. My body will be wrinkled when I become a grandmother, but I can't imagine what it will be like.
6. Conclusion
Thanks to plastic surgery, I
think I was able to go from being hurt by people just because of my appearance before the surgery
to a normal level where I can live a somewhat social life.
But it's still not objectively pretty.
Even though I recently had contour surgery, I just sigh when I look at myself on the rear camera. But even after going this far, if it's like this...
I'm just trying to accept my reality...
The money and time I wasted chasing an invisible illusion, my devastated mind, and my suffering life are so precious and pitiful... The
bottom line is, everything is in moderation! naturally! Let's accept some of our shortcomings! If there
are people who have suffered from an obsession with appearance, let's let go of it to some extent.