I think people who have had plastic surgery live with a burden they don't know about.
Please, the memories of hurting my body. An anesthetic can't erase the shame I felt right before I went under anesthesia.
Because the contouring surgery went wrong, I lived in a more hunched position than others throughout my 20s. Later, I developed inflammation, had to quit my job, and suffered from depression, but I didn't realize it was depression.
I think I lived my life thinking that plastic surgery had nothing to do with my heart because I was quite strong-minded. I'm just a little unconfident. Or maybe it was just a time when I became a slightly nervous person... I thought so, but I didn't really know that I was depressed during my depression period. Now that I think about it, I realize that it really hurt at that time. However, I have been able to forget about it a bit since I started living in society again, and I think I am now rebuilding and my heart is healing a lot.
Lyricist Kim Eana once said that you can't write objective love lyrics when you're desperately in love, and I think the same goes for plastic surgery.
For whatever reason, I don't think I can make a good decision about plastic surgery when I'm depressed or have a very severe sense of inferiority. When I'm depressed because I don't like something, I tend to make choices more hastily. In times like that, I think it would be a good idea to go to counseling a little more loosely and discuss it with a friend before making a more careful decision.
Even though we all experience a little humiliation, we still smile and live our social lives. I think plastic surgery is one of my struggles to live a better life even if it hurts a little. If something goes wrong, the damage is huge ㅠㅠ
So, I hope that those who are currently depressed due to the side effects of plastic surgery, or those who are worried about their appearance because they really want to have plastic surgery, can live confidently.
I think it would be a good idea to think about whether there were many times in your life when you were complimented or criticized for your appearance.
I was born to outstanding brothers and sisters who were generally above the standard of beauty. So, even though I looked average, I received a lot of criticism, and my skin was not the best, so I always worried about it. It seemed normal when I went out, but at home, I was told things about things that were a bit stricter, so I lived with an inferiority complex throughout my 20s. So, the decision to have plastic surgery was very easy for me, and in the process, the unfortunate event that my chin got hollowed out and the plastic surgery went wrong? I got hit.
Looking back on my 20s, I think becoming prettier at the time felt like a natural form of self-improvement.
I write down excuses for not loving myself, saying, “If there were more people who told me that I’m pretty as is, I would have been a little more cautious.”
After all, the current standards of beauty are standards taught to us by others... I don't even know what the standards of beauty are, but people who love their faces are loved just as they are and live well.
I felt so sorry for myself for never being able to properly show off my pretty face throughout my 20s that I ended up crying.
I promise that from now on, I will live with my face being the prettiest.
There were a lot of messages, and there was a delay in replies, but after 5 months, I started to receive them. I sent you all the overdue items today.
The top photo is before reconstruction and
the rest are after reconstruction photos.
My cheeks were sagging a lot because too much bone was cut off, but I think they have tightened up a bit.
I didn't want to overdo the rebuilding and I think it turned out as I wanted. I think it would be a good idea to consult with the director who chose the amount of reconstruction according to his or her own standards. When I had my first excision surgery, I just did it without any intention and ended up shaving off everything that was there. ㅠㅠ I was shocked.
Pursuing perfect plastic surgery is also a stress-causing factor. People who have too high standards or are too sensitive will have a harder time getting plastic surgery.
You asked for a photo of the city, so I uploaded it as well.
Choose carefully, but I hope you forget it quickly and live with lots of love. I think you probably love it just the way it is. You only know yourself.
I think the recovery time was about a week faster for reconstruction than for resection.
I had been going to consultations for nose surgery very slowly, but one of the doctors here said he was good at being a bit flashy and good at improving the shape of things that were wrong, so I looked for reviews and got help. Still, I didn't have enough room to look forward to the nose because of my chin, but I'm satisfied because the recovery was quick and the shape was natural. I appointed the director and waited for the day when the two of us were scheduled together.
I think plastic surgery is a field that you can't pursue even if you have a passion for it. I know that success with new materials is the director's passion and achievement, but it is better to receive it from a teacher who is consistently and faithfully doing what he or she is currently best at. Talking about passion by saying, “let’s try this” and “let’s try that” is something that comes out of startups or self-development books. Rather than those who put hope on their faces, it is safer to have a doctor who tells you what you can do and shows you pictures of surgeries he has performed.
Although the passion and research spirit of the directors are highly regarded, plastic surgery is a place where people come with such faith who want to pay the full price and only perform the safest surgeries that are currently possible. If you want to conduct an experiment, I would like you to go to a university hospital, recruit subjects, and receive at least a consent form. (Fat- Written by a person who lost a lot of money after being experimented on at a famous hospital)
There is someone who keeps posting my photos in the group chat room... Actually, I am looking at all of them. ㅜㅠ Almost all of them are in the group chat room and we have been talking for several years.
People who post that it's good are just looking at it, but it's a bit odd. But I also get a little hurt by people who say that my face is naturally long and that my nose is so long that it's difficult. It's a bit hard to say it's my photo, but everyone is sensitive because of the broker, so I'm just looking at it.
I sent messages to others on Seongye Love Naver and received replies, and I received a lot of help while working at the hospital, so I am posting what I am doing with a grateful heart. Thank you again to them.
글 읽는데 마음이 느껴져서 너무 찡하네요. 잘 되셔서 너무 다행이에요. 진짜 자연스럽게 예쁘게 됐어요. 단톡방도 있나 봐요?? 근데 왜 다른사람 사진을 함부로 올리죠. 다들 컴플렉스 가지고 있고 거기에 고민하면서 다른사람 얼굴을 품평하고 있고 짜증나네요 ㅠ 진짜 예쁘게 성공하셔서 너무 좋아요.
[@윤곽3종] 윤곽삼종님 마음이 되려 예쁘십니다. 뭐든 실패를 해봐야 정신차리고 배우잖아요.;; 그래서 사람들이 단톡방 만들어서 재건 공부도 하고 윤곽에 대한 수다도 떨고 그러기 시작 한거 같아요. 물론 그런 방들에도 브로커가 있어요. 오래 있었던 사람들은 들어오면 알죠. 브로커구나...ㅋ 암튼 뭐 도움이 된다는건 좋지만 얼굴 돌아 다니는거 좀 그렇네요 근데 성형많이 하시는 분들 대부분은 다른사람 얼굴 잘 평가해요. 그러니 자기도 평가 당하기 두려워 성형을 하는거 같네요. 물론 사회적 문제도 크지만 자기 외모에 민감할때는 남도 얼굴만 보이더라구요. 저도 어릴때 그랬던거 같긴해요 ㅋㅋ 평가를 당하고 자라서 평가를 하고 ;; 근데 남의 얼굴에 대해 대체적으로 사람들이 관심도 없더라구요 ㅎ 즐거운 하루 되세~~
정말다행이에요ㅠㅠㅠㅠ진짜눈물ㅜㅜ사진도용은 진짜 미친거아닌가요,,암튼 수술잘되셔서 너무 다행이에요 앞으루 꽃길만 걸으세요! 후기 정말 감사드려요. 저 며칠전에 ㄷㅇㅇ 김원장님께 상담받았었거든요. 덜컥 예약금까지 걸어버렸는데.. 붓기는 며칠후에 많이빠지고 라인이 이뿌게 나오던가여??
(+님 후기글 읽고왔습니다! 도움많이됐어요 감사합니당 지금은 아무 부작용없이 생활하고계신거죠?? 혹시 볼처짐..같은 것이 만약에라두 생기면 그때 리프팅이나 지흡하실 예정이신가요??)
[@웅앵] 지흡은 한번이구요. 진짜 잘 알아보고 하세요 ^^ 사실 지방 이식 하신분 아니면 추천은 안해요 잘못하면 얼굴이 파이고 그래서 ...친구가 많이 고생했어요. 근데 제친구는 윤곽은 한방에 성공해서...뭐든 약간씩은 운인거 같아요. 그래도 최대한 잘 알아보고 해야죠 뭐 ^^
리프팅도 계속 해야 하는거라 ...지쳐서요. 나중에는 행사 있을때 한달 혹은 이주전에 했어요^^
초음파 리프팅 1년이나 6개월에 한번씩 했었어요. 더블로, 울세라 , 슈링크 다 같은 원리 인데요 울세라는 아직 해본적 없지만 하신 분들이 드라마틱한 효과는 없다고 하는데 ;; 30대 중반쯤에 유지 용으로 할 만 한거 같아요. ^^
구구절절 맞는 말씀이세요.. 진짜 성형은 기능적인 부분이 잘못됐다거나 미용적으로 심각하게 잘못되지 않는 이상은 재수술하지 말고 그냥 만족하면서 성형 전의 얼굴을 생각하면서 사는게 마음이 편할 것 같아요! 작성자님의 셀카나 뼈사진은 보니 재수술 하고 나서 제대로 뼈미인 되셨어욤! 축하드립니다ㅋㅋㅋ!! 재수술은 잘되셔서 정말 다행이에요ㅠㅠ 앞으로 우리 모두 현재의 예쁨에 만족하며 건강한 삶 살아요!!! 화이팅!
우울증도 앓았지만 우울증인지도 모르고 살았었어요.. 20대를 잃었어요 라는 그 말, 그 마음이 너무나 공감되요..
저도 참 내 자신을 사랑하지 못했더라구요 왜 너무나 어린시절부터 나는 완벽해야 한다고 생각했을까요
이 글만으로도 마음이 참 따뜻하고 단단하신 분이라는게 보이세요 위로 많이 받고 갑니다
병원 측에서 환자들을 돈줄이나 실험대상의 고깃덩어리로만 봐주지 않아도 참 좋을거같아요 구쵸?...ㅠ 좋은 의사선생님 만나, 만족스러운 결과 얻는것도 어떻게 보면 참 복인거같아요...ㅠ 으니님 글, 참 많은걸 생각하게 하네요. 으니님 완전 멋잇으세요! 재건도 예뿌게 넘나 잘 되신거같아 괜히 찡하네요,, 꽃길만 걸어주세요♥ 으니님께 행복한 날들만이 가득하길♥
글을 어쩜 이렇게 잘 쓰시나요... 성예사에서 글 보며 감동 먹기는 처음이에요~ㅎㅎ 결국에는 재건 성공하시고 잘 마무리가 되셔서 저도 편한 맘으로 댓글을 달 수 있어서 감사하네요~
그간의 힘들고 복잡했던 마음을 다 헤아릴 수 없지만, 앞으로는 갓피어난 꽃처럼 세상 밝게 사셨으면 좋겠어요~
으니님의 삶을 응원하겠습니다.
우선 너무 고생 많으셨어요 ㅠㅠ 하.. 저도 안면윤곽 재수술 알아보고 있는중입니다.. 너무 우울하네요.. 앞턱도 뭉치고 쳐지고 너무 힘든시간을 보내고 있습니다 발품을 팔아도 너무 힘드네요.. 혹시 재건 어느병원에서 한건지 여쭤봐도 될까요..? 알려주시면 진짜 감사하겠습니다ㅠㅠ 부탁드릴께요..
정말 정말로 고생 많이 하셨어요 ㅠㅠ 진짜 이 글을 읽을 동안은 저 정말 기뻤어요!! 저도 지금 윤곽3종에 코도 재건 알아보고 있습니다! 삼년이 지나가고 있네요.. 이제 아이도 갖어야하는데 마음만 조급해지고 있습니다..혹시 코랑 얼굴 재건 하신곳 저도 알 수 있을까요..? 부탁드리겠습니다..!
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