Double incision + front opening + back opening + bottom opening (lowering the eye corners)

I had it done on 5/16. After waking up from the anesthesia, I was in a trance and was hospitalized without hearing any explanation of precautions. I was hospitalized for two days and kept applying cold packs, but the swelling did not go down. I heard it would swell a lot for 2-3 days, but it was really swollen and half of my black eye was covered;; That's because it's all over the eyes. It's like looking at your eyes after crying. My sister who works in plastic surgery tells me that the lines are well defined and it will look pretty. I had eyes that didn't need epicanthoplasty, but I was greedy and had them done. The conjunctival edema has risen and even the eyeballs are red. They put in eye drops. It's been 3 days and I've already heard that if you practice opening your eyes, the swelling will go down faster. Is it okay to do that? Will the swelling go down and look natural in about a month? I also wanted to get a cute filler, but I was afraid it would make my eyes puffier, so I decided to get a cute filler once the swelling subsides a little.