Because I know because I lived with a really ugly face.
Yes, to be honest, in today's world, I don't think it's as sinful as passing on the ugly gene.
I was ugly, so I suffered a lot of unfair things, and I was treated like a bug.
When I was in elementary school, the girls I was with on partner change day were made fun of by other girls. This happened because the girl pinched my arm and promoted me, asking why I was her partner. But it wasn't because I wanted to be a partner, it was just that the computer program placed them randomly, so I couldn't help it... And honestly, I knew my level well, so I never talked to girls since I was young, and I did wrong to them. There was nothing. But they seemed to think that looking at my face was my fault. They must have been disgusted to even see such a shit face.
The girls also posted a mission message on Kakao Story saying that they would get 1,000 won if they confessed to me, calling it a Kakao Story mission. That was 10 years ago, and that too... Now that I'm working at a company, female employees are right in front of me, and they're gossiping and giggling about my appearance right behind my back. Those female employees really said that I looked like shit, and I never talked to them and I didn't do anything wrong. Every time something like that happens, I just hold back and come home and cry. Even though I was just quietly doing my job at work... If the part-timer at the convenience store happened to be a woman, she would show off something really unfriendly. Male part-time workers don't do that, but only female part-time workers do that... That's why I don't go to convenience stores where there are female part-time workers...
Well, to be honest, I think it's true that personality is more important than appearance among same-sex people. But what is certain is that among the opposite sex, looks are 90% and personality is 10%. I know my level and have never confessed or talked to a woman or anything like that, but looking at the attitude women have had towards me so far, it would be obvious what would happen if I confessed to someone like me....
Heterosexual relationships are also very important for the quality of life. It's a life where I have a role, but I can't enjoy it... I never want to transfer this kind of life to the life I was born into. It's better to just live and die alone.
Then someone else will say it. It is said that a man is more capable than his looks.
But is there really any meaning in a marriage based only on hair without love? From a woman's perspective, it is an "inevitable" marriage, but is there really any meaning in staying with such a woman? Yes, if you are ugly, I think cutting out those genes is the wisest choice.
Even telling me to increase my confidence is useless. Confidence comes from being good, but if confidence comes from being bad, wouldn't that be strange?
So, if an ugly guy is so confident and goes around confessing to girls, it's obvious that he'll get a bad look. There are many women who are disgusted by even talking to ugly men. Being ugly is a sin. In today's world,
I can never deny this because I have lived with a very ugly face for over 20 years. Because people who haven't experienced it don't know.