People who have had nose surgery have swelling at the tip of their nose

When will the swelling at the tip of my nose go down??
 It's been exactly 30 days since the surgery...
 The tip of my nose is very hard and
 looks like a cherry tomato... They
 told me to wait, but
 when I look at pictures of people who had successful surgery,
 the tip of my nose was thin enough even in the 2-3 weeks...
 But I held on to it because I knew it would get thinner in a month, but
 the hospital said They told me to wait longer.. ㅜㅜ
 Maybe it's because I have thick skin..
 Is there a history of swelling at the tip of the nose for a long time??
 How far did you go??
 When will I notice the swelling going down??
 phew