I really wish someone would grab my past self by the collar and tell him
this
. More than you think, as you get older, the importance of looks decreases a lot and the importance of ability increases a lot.
It's so hard for me who has no abilities
. No matter how much I heard this when I was young, I
'd always say things like, "No matter what, if you're ugly, it's useless~ If you're pretty, that's all." I
regret it so much.
Appearance is a matter of likability, but ability is a matter of livelihood.
Society is so colder than you think, and they don't support pretty incompetent people.
If they have the same abilities, then the pretty person should be better. But it's so hard to build up the ability to live an average life like everyone else..
I don't have time to cry about being ugly..
And I thought the saying that a woman's age is 25 like a Christmas cake was misogynistic when I was young, but really, you age all at once at 25 and age even faster at 30... Now that I'm in my 30s, I'm surprised when I look at old pictures.. When I meet my childhood friends, I think, "That friend has aged a lot too. She was really pretty." and I feel bitter.. I've even cried when I looked in the mirror because time passes so quickly. ㅋㅋ
If I keep doing this and turn 35, I think my appearance will all become similar, just like adults say when they get old..
The conclusion is that you need to spend money on your skin from the age of 35, so from this time on, your beauty is maintained with a regular salary, a never-ending stream of money..
Did you know that you start getting gray hair at 32?
That's why we call a 32-year-old "Imo" in Chinese characters. It's the age where my second hair grows ㅠㅠ
Even for gray hair, I get so annoyed at having to dye my hair gray every two weeks..
That's how much beauty after 30 is a marathon. I can do it without getting tired ㅠㅠ
If I worked at a shitty company, would I have the motivation to dye my hair and take care of my skin regularly? It
's useless to be popular and show off your skills in your 20s..
Everyone meets people in their workplace or field and gets married...
My past where I didn't study at all hurts so much ㅠ
To all the 20-somethings these days, please look in the mirror and study often.. Of course, everyone else will do better than me! My life is so messed up that I don't know how to fix it at my age ㅠ I'm at a loss ㅠㅠ
Study, for real