How should I manage pores that are this big?

When I was in middle school and middle school, I always washed late and wiped myself with a cleansing tissue because it was annoying, but as an adult, unlike my classmates, my skin was very dirty. So, even though I came to my senses and washed it every now and then and applied good packs and creams, there was no sign of it getting better, so I went to a dermatologist to get treatment. There are so many treatments out there that I don't know which one is most effective. It's okay if it's long, but please ask *those who have seen the results of home care or dermatology*ㅠㅠ Now, I have more chances to go out on dates, but since it's summer, I put on thick makeup to cover my pores, and it's so hot that it makes me look even more puffy, so I'm really stressed outㅠㅠ