Among my friends, I have really big eyes, white skin, and really pretty facial features from when I was a trainee. I always get compliments from people around me, and I have a great body.
I had a candid conversation with her this time while drinking, right?
My own worries, since I was young, everyone around me confessed that she was the prettiest at school, I came up on the school community, and I spent my whole life hearing about my appearance, so
it seems like everyone likes me because of my looks, and my worth seems to be all about my looks, and if I don't have looks, I don't care. He said that it seemed like it was already over and that he would still be treated like this even when he was in his 30s and 40s. He said that he was afraid of aging and that he was obsessed with taking care of it and couldn't stop being obsessed with his appearance.
Even in her family, her father said, ‘A woman must first look pretty, so you should do yoga or exercise to make your body prettier.’ Her mother said, ‘You’re pretty, but you should get surgery on your calves.’ She also got evaluated on her appearance by her aunt, and was praised for being pretty + regretful. I had a friend who always had a high and pretty nose because she grew up hearing comments about her appearance after being judged for
her appearance, but she told me that she needed to get plastic surgery on the tip of her nose to make her look prettier, and that she wanted to fix other parts of her nose as well.
The more I hear compliments about my appearance, the more obsessed I become, and it drives me crazy. I'm so stressed out, but I want to escape from the shackles of my appearance.
People who grew up hearing only that they're ugly become obsessed with their appearance, and conversely, people who grew up only hearing that they're pretty seem to become obsessed, too.
On YouTube . I watched Dr. Eunyoung Oh's video this time, and she said that praise is toxic and that it's better not to say it at all. It
's the same in other areas, too. If you hear that you're good at studying or that you're good at studying, you'll feel like you have to keep doing well to maintain a top rank. It's the same thing.