Hello, how many weeks ago? Here, I wrote something like 'Even if I didn't outline it, I would regret it-' ㅠㅠ In
early February, I received 3 types of outlines from ㄱㅎ, and the bottom line is that I am satisfied now. I was just worried about the future
(It's not a publicity for the hospital or anything
like that. There is no ill-will or affection for the hospital. Even if you emphasize that you are conscientious anywhere in the hospital, in the end, it's a commercial interest rather than a service.
) This is my consolation to those who have already outlined me and are living with worries. Therefore, I hope that you do not decide to undergo plastic surgery after reading this article. If you are just thinking about getting older, I think you should be more careful about 'Why do I have to have plastic surgery?'
(Actually, I am writing this to comfort myself while reflecting on last night.)
Actually, I was very depressed for a few weeks. Before the operation, I was sad because my self-esteem crawled to the floor because of my very bumpy face. (Self meridians before bed + Lying upside down + Vegetarian food for anti-aging, etc.)
Then, when I was at the peak of my depression yesterday, I realized some things while talking with my high school classmates, so I wanted to share them here, so I took the time to write. I was wondering what this was all of a sudden while working part-time, but I think there must be a lot of people like me, so I'm not good at writing, but I'll keep it short.
I have a habit of taking pictures of myself every night and comparing them to before the surgery. Even though it has only been about 6 months, I am afraid of saggy cheeks. In fact, even before the surgery, I had some bulging on the side of the lips and drooping on the side of the nose, but it seems to have gotten worse after the surgery, so I cried every night. Even though I'm in my early 20s, I feel like I've lost some of my elasticity.. I had the sagging cheeks and had the surgery, but when my skin looked sagging even a little, I immediately cried.
In the meantime, I met a friend and talked about it, and I started comforting you by saying how did you become like this, and tears came to your eyes.
If you remember a friend's words and write them down (I tend to speak a little louder, but I cherish my five-year life.. ㅠㅠ)
"Is there any reason you hold a mirror and look at the mirror when you say that you care about the shape of your cheeks and the shape of your cheeks every time you see a mirror? You said you didn't want to be sad when you looked at me. What should I do after the surgery?
You seem to have sagging cheeks - your skin is sagging - but in fact, people don't say, 'Wow, he's sagging' when you pass by. They don't look that interested in you. it's a terminal
But how does it help you to look at your face while taking pictures every night? Don't you only lower your self-esteem and blame yourself for the surgery? The cheeks were sagging and the skin was slightly sagging. You've improved a lot from before. So it didn't happen? Even if the snow skin is sagging, why? Got a problem? Does looking a little old cause a problem? Do you think people around you will tell you every day that you are sagging? no. Rather, from the moment you say that you have sagging cheeks, even those who haven't had surgery will look like you have sagging cheeks.
Oooh, I wish you were subjective. This doesn't mean that you are not in control, but I hope you don't fit the world into your mold Build your own pillar. I think it's more valuable to find what makes you happy when you're doing it, than to waste your time trying to match you with a 'pretty person'. Whether the cheeks sag, lose elasticity, or the clowns are less, it doesn't matter if you live in the world. And no one will treat you harshly just because you're not pretty. Even if there is such a person, that person is wrong, not because of your appearance. He didn't do the surgery because he wanted to be praised by the wrong person, but to increase your self-esteem. Why do you keep trying to fit you into the world? It's not that it's bad for people in the world to look sloppy, so it's not that we're united
. "
If you roughly reproduce the situation and write it down, these are the words. To summarize,
1. It doesn't matter if you have sagging cheeks. People don't analyze your face.
2. Don't blame yourself because the surgery was done to save you. Only you, not others, analyze your face.
3. Why do you dig into the parts you don't like? What's the use of looking in the mirror all day and worrying about sagging cheeks? Find a way to make you happy Hobbies or whatever
------------Conclusion------------- Hearing
these words, it seemed like everything was right.
Before consulting with a friend Myself: Is your cheeks moderate? ah it was Come and see me. Ha, I just had surgery.
After consultation: What if you have sagging cheeks? i am me And if you have saggy cheeks, what do you worry about buying a pig? You just have to earn the money part-time, so why were you worrying ahead of time?
So I'm a little happy now. Rather, on this occasion, to prevent aging, a vegetarian diet! As I try to think about changing to a vegetarian diet for better health than this, the heavy burden on my heart is relieved.
Even if it did not come yet, even if it did come, it was minor, not because of surgery, but because of natural aging caused by the passage of time, etc. Worried about and searching on YouTube, do not be hurt by looking at comments like 'If you are vast, your cheeks will sag 100%', don't get hurt at that time How about doing something that makes you happy?
And, to those who post reviews, a comment that says '100% sagging cheeks' is written because you are worried about it, but in the eyes of others, it is recognized as a cursing article. You have to live with a toothpaste from a person who eats candy - the bag is rotten. Can you compare it with these words? Comments like that are given as advice to those who are still considering cheekbone surgery, and if you don't go back and comment on those who have already done it, I think it will be good for each other. Because everyone wants to give as much help as they have received, so they come and leave a review. (Well, if it smells like a broker and smells like a recommendation for plastic surgery, I'll attack you.)
Anyway, having a good friend makes me feel so much happier. He is a friend who is going to study abroad soon, but he has been a great help to me until the end.
He was a friend who gave me a lot of comfort and always supported me during the entrance exam and when I went to college. I'm going to buy some rice.
Thank you very much :)
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Bebebell
