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I want to die. I just had double eyelid surgery.

내내어여쁘소서 2016-08-15 (월) 09:14 8 Years ago 6896
I've posted this several times. I want to commit suicide. Please help me. I can't eat or sleep. I want to die. I've applied for a leave of absence from school. I want to keep my original double eyelid line as it is . I had two incisions and removed the sagging skin in front of my head. I heard that the line would be slightly more visible than now. I went under the knife. It's been a month and 10 days. My line is thick . I had swelling for a month after the surgery, so the line has come out. It's not uneven, it's not a scar, it's not too high, and there are no functional problems. I got the scar injection twice for free and they're giving me two more. Maybe that's why there's really no swelling. When I put on makeup, my eyes were long and pretty like a cat's, but even with light makeup, they were long and my double eyelid line was long, so when I put on makeup, I tried to make them look more natural, but they were too round and kind, and the harmony was broken. Especially when I have no makeup. I felt good when I washed my face and looked at it, but now I want to die. I don't know what kind of rich and honorable life I wanted to enjoy, but my eyes are not pretty because they are big, and it's hard to put on the makeup I liked, and I couldn't sleep and kept looking in the mirror because I kept pulling and rubbing my eyelids because they were saggy. I can't give up on my face. I'm taking a leave of absence from school and working part-time to save money to restore it to its original state, but I don't want to get an incision, so I'm going to get fat grafting on the eyelids to lower my double eyelid line by at least 1mm and re-do the double eyelid tip line. I'll send you a copy of my surgery diary and a photo file this week. If I get fat grafting on the eyelids, my eyelids will sag a bit and the line will come out. It'll get worse over time, but I want to live right now. I want to end it and do it online. At the beginning of the procedure, I thought it turned out really well because of the swelling, or maybe because of the lines that stretched outward, and my eyes that didn't look round, but it's even stranger now that the swelling has gone down. I trusted the person who was capable and got it done, and I thought I would get double eyelid surgery, but my eyes changed so much that I couldn't sleep. I would really appreciate any advice or comments based on experience. It would be so helpful.

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퀸유나 2016-08-15 (월) 13:38 8 Years ago Address
It would have been better if you had uploaded a photo... First of all, I feel your distress just from the text, and it breaks my heart . I understand how you feel, but please stop pulling on your eyelids right now to try to stretch them. It would be nice if you could stretch them, but they won't stretch that well, and if the thread inside comes loose, things will get complicated . From what I've read, it seems like the author is more upset that the swelling is going down and the shape isn't what she wanted. However, if it hasn't even been two months, that means the swelling hasn't completely gone down, and in other words, the shape will change little by little. The swelling right above the eyelashes, that is, between the double eyelid line and the eyelashes, has gone down, but the swelling above the line, the eyelid area, hasn't completely gone down, so the line may have sunk in and the eyes may look round. Even if it seems like the swelling has completely gone down, it often isn't. You have to wait. You can't be sure of anything at this point. You also felt that your eyes were different right after the surgery, right? Wait another month, wait another month, and so on for at least 6 months. In the meantime, it's best to empty your mind and wait. I know that the mind isn't as easy to control as you say, but that's the only way right now. First of all, you didn't turn into a sausage, you didn't have any functional problems, and you said you don't have any scars, so other people might think, "Oh, your appearance has changed since last time," but no one will think, "You had a bad plastic surgery and got side effects. " The writer seems to be feeling a lot of frustration and anxiety, but objectively speaking, it doesn't seem like the situation is that pessimistic. Control your emotions. As I keep saying, unless it's overcorrection or a sausage, a second surgery will be relatively easy, and since it hasn't been that long since the surgery, calmly go about your daily life and wait. Don't focus too much on your eyes. That'll only make you suffer more. I don't know what to say to comfort you. However, I understand how you feel. Eat something delicious, get some rest, and soothe your tired mind.
     
     
내내어여쁘소서 Writer 2016-08-15 (월) 14:28 8 Years ago Address
[@Queen Yuna] I'm crying while reading the comments. Thank you so much. I can't tell my parents and my expression is blank. It's so hard. The hospital side also said that it's not a functional problem, but a cynical attitude. I wonder how pretty and happy it is to be natural. I wonder why I only found out now. Thank you. I hope you have a good day.
          
          
퀸유나 2016-08-15 (월) 15:07 8 Years ago Address
[@내내어여쁘소서] 걱정마시고 맘 편하게 먹고 휴학도 했으니 편히 쉬세요 님도 좋은일 생기시길 바라요 혹시 실례가 안된다면 어디서 수술하셨는지도 알 수 있을까요?
               
               
내내어여쁘소서 Writer 2016-08-15 (월) 15:30 8 Years ago Address
[@Queen Yuna] I'll let you know if I'm dissatisfied even after two monthsㅜㅜ
                    
                    
퀸유나 2016-08-15 (월) 16:43 8 Years ago Address
[@내내어여쁘소서] 네 감사해요 공개적으로 댓글달기 꺼려지시면 쪽지보내셔도 돼요 힘내세요
                         
                         
내내어여쁘소서 Writer 2016-08-15 (월) 20:50 8 Years ago Address
[@Queen Yuna] I'm going back to the hospital tomorrow to straighten the back line of my double eyelids to get rid of the rounded look. I'm holding out for the front part of my head with makeup, massage, and time to avoid being noticed, and I'm considering fat grafting.
퀸유나 2016-08-15 (월) 21:04 8 Years ago Address
Author, I repeat, please do not be impatient. When you go for a consultation tomorrow, just think about whether the surgery you are thinking of is possible, what the scar will be like if you have a second surgery, whether the desired result will come out if you do it that way, and what the current swelling is like . If you go with expectations about how to have the surgery right away, you will only feel more depressed. The reason why second surgery is done after 6 months is simply because the inside is not healed even if the outside of the skin is completely healed. Of course, the shape is the same. Even if you get a perfectly tattooed circle on your swollen arm from an injury, the circle will become distorted when the swelling completely goes down. Never think about having a second surgery in a hurry, but if you go to the hospital for a second consultation, your mind will be at ease a little, so just go and relax.
퀸유나 2016-08-15 (월) 21:06 8 Years ago Address
And is there a massage that can make the eyelid sagging? As I mentioned in the previous comment, don't pull or rub it. There is no guarantee that the eyelid sagging will be evenly and beautifully made.
     
     
내내어여쁘소서 Writer 2016-08-15 (월) 23:21 8 Years ago Address
[@Queen Yuna] I couldn't sleep and cried in front of the mirror, but I'm so grateful. Thank you so much. Thank you so much.....
러브맘 2016-08-16 (화) 00:27 8 Years ago Address
You must be upset because it wasn't as satisfying as you thought. But double eyelid surgery changes its shape depending on the swelling. Right now, even if the swelling goes down, you might think the line is too dark, but as time passes and the remaining swelling goes down, the line might look more natural. In my opinion, I think it's a bit hasty to think about getting another surgery now. I can feel you're stressed, but I think you should wait a little longer. For me, only the major swelling has gone down. It will be a prettier line once the remaining swelling goes down!
     
     
내내어여쁘소서 Writer 2016-08-16 (화) 02:29 8 Years ago Address
[@러브맘]
그럴까여
잠을못자는거힘드네요
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신낭 2016-08-16 (화) 10:31 8 Years ago Address
ㅠㅠ 힘내세용
오레오아이스크림 2016-08-16 (화) 10:38 8 Years ago Address
부분절개로 하신 건가요? 아님 완전절개에 쳐진 살 제거만 2mm였나요?저는 동그란 강아지 눈매도 참 이쁠것 같은데 안 어울리게 느껴지신다니 속상하시겠어요...
모야최 2016-08-17 (수) 12:49 8 Years ago Address
같이 힘냅시다..
내내어여쁘소서 Writer 2016-08-17 (수) 18:55 8 Years ago Address
I'm getting used to it little by little and covering it with makeup, and since it's not a big difference of 2mm , I think the line is going down little by little. I'm considering raising the line only at the corners of my eyes. I never want to get a knife again. I regret the incision so much, and the plastic surgery itself is mentally stressful. Even if I get plastic surgery and become prettier, I don't think I'll become prettier. I liked my face naturally, so I'm confident and I don't want to do this kind of difficult work again. So I don't envy any of my friends who have become prettier.
이초딩 2016-08-22 (월) 19:44 8 Years ago Address
Cheer upㅜㅜ
예쁘고선한눈갖고싶당 2016-08-28 (일) 09:04 8 Years ago Address
ㅠㅠ Your eyelids will droop again, so you'll be able to get your original eyes back.. Fighting! Cheer up.. Do you know which hospital you got it done at~? I want to cut my bangs a bit and have kind eyes, but I'm worried it'll be a waste, so I haven't done it for five years.. ㅠㅠㅠ
소새지눈 2016-09-02 (금) 04:09 8 Years ago Address
I'm having a second surgery and I think I'm going to develop social phobia.
부랴 2016-09-07 (수) 03:18 8 Years ago Address
Wow, cheer upㅜㅜ As someone who failed, it's so hardㅜ Everyone is trying to become prettyㅜㅜ I hope your second surgery is successful!!
수설아 2016-09-10 (토) 20:40 8 Years ago Address
I trusted you and had the surgery, so you must be disappointed..
차라 2016-10-01 (토) 19:23 8 Years ago Address
Cheer up.. I originally had really pretty eyes, but I tried to have western eyes and completely failed, so I'm finally preparing for a second surgery.. My confidence is so low that I can't look at others.. I think I have to do it..
사진찍어보내줘 2017-08-14 (월) 15:54 7 Years ago Address
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